Care and Feeding: A Memoir

books by Laurie Woolever

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In this moving, hilarious, and insightful memoir, Laurie Woolever traces her path from a small-town childhood to working at revered restaurants and food publications, alternately bolstered and overshadowed by two of the most powerful men in the business. But there’s more to the story than the two bold-faced names on her Mario Batali and Anthony Bourdain.Behind the scenes, Laurie’s life is frequently chaotic, an often pleasurable buffet of bad decisions at which she frequently overstays her welcome. Acerbic and wryly self-deprecating, Laurie attempts to carve her own space as a woman in this world that is by turns toxic and intoxicating. Laurie seeks to try it all—from a seedy Atlantic City strip club to the Park Hyatt Tokyo, from a hippie vegetarian co-op to the legendary El Bulli—while balancing her consuming work with her sometimes ambivalent relationship to marriage and motherhood.As the food world careens toward an overdue reckoning and Laurie’s mentors face their own high-profile descents, she is confronted with the questions of where she belongs and how to hold on to the parts of her life’s work that she truly values: care and feeding. This book demonstrates how effective storytelling does not require constant action. Moments of reflection and dialogue are used strategically to add depth and context. These quieter elements enrich the story and provide balance. The book invites readers to slow down and fully engage with the narrative as it unfolds. Rather than rushing through major plot points, the author allows moments to breathe, giving emotional weight to both action and reflection. This deliberate pacing helps readers absorb the underlying themes more naturally. Many find that this approach enhances immersion, making the reading experience feel richer and more rewarding over time.